Regarding breaking engagement

Balakumar (Querist) 16 March 2018 This query is : Resolved
one of my friend got engaged recently. now we got a news that the girl was in serious relation both physical & mental with twice the age of her and even after engagement she is continuing the same and we got the proof. Considering y friend life & she is cheating my friend and still mow she is acting as if nothing is happen. Nobody nos about this. how can i open the subject to him is there will be any problem. kindly advise me as this will totally collapse their life.

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Guest (Expert) 16 March 2018
There seems a clear artificiality in your description. Why do you want to break engagement of your friend? Has your friend asked you to help him break the engagement?

Is not it strange that you have the proof of your friend's would be wife about her serious physical and mental relations with some other person even after engagement, but your engaged friend does not have that?

Another question arises, how you were interested to get proof privately without the information of your friend and with what motive you want to open the subject to him (your friend)?

If you really have some proof in hand, why not show him, instead of thinking of opening the subject (theoretically) to him? However, if you don't have any courage to show the proof, let the couple marry and keep the subject left to your friend to check at his own after marriage.