Rcr pro and con
ChandanLawyersclub
(Querist) 11 February 2018
This query is : Open
Dear Experts
I am married from last 14 years. I have a daughter of 3 years. I was working in South earlier, moved to another metro in North for job. Since my profile jobs are very less in South due to my domain industries base
1. My wife has not joined me from last one year, they still stay in south in my flat. I work in North. My mother take care of small daughter in south . I have senior executive profile cannot compromise my career since I have another half of my career years service , I have to move to another cities as good opportunity comes. My wife is also in job earn rs 20000 per month salary. I have assured many times I will give her sufficient money equivalent of her salary even she leaves the job. She has not joined me as of now.
2. My wife has stopped having marital relations with me from last 2.4 years. I have told many times to her not to do so still she do not listen .
If I file RCR on ground of 1. Not joining me 2. Not having relationship with me from 2 years.
what are pros and cons of RCR
Is there any resolution of this without divorce?. I have tried all counselling, spoken to her parents but nothing worked. I want to resolve this issue without divorce.
I am willing to give in writing even I will give her pocket expenses more than her salary when she leaves job and joins me where every I move ( any metro). In fact she will get Rs 20000 job where ever I move
Regards
Chand
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 12 February 2018
RCR notice is a time tested tool to compel wife to raise true/false complaint of dowry/domestic violence against husband with family including married/unmarried brother/sisters wit/without their spouse. This way husband leaves her with no choice but to spoil his family even if she does not want to do so.
Thus forum is full of such cases where husband with parents/siblings faced such criminal charges.
After visiting jails people realise that the situation inside Indian Jails is not as rosy as shown in movies and the cops are also comedians in movies which is not in actual life.
Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 12 February 2018
I agree with Sudhir Kumar in toto.
ChandanLawyersclub
(Querist) 12 February 2018
Thx Mr. Sudhir and Ms. Usha.
I have to move for job. My wife not taking full care of daughter, so my mother is with her. I am missing daughters childhood. I have already done foolish mistake of buying joint property from my own money costing my 15 years saving long back. Even my wife not ready of MCD, if I contest my half house +1/5- 1/4 of salary goes away as maintenance. Its total loose after contesting for 7-8 years.
I want to send her notice to join me via lawyer or want to move ahead with RCR
which option will be better.
OR any better solution
request experts to comment.
