Need to know women's cell procedures
Arindam Debnath
(Querist) 13 July 2014
This query is : Resolved
Hi,
I am Arindam, need your expert advice on my issue. My wife was based out of Mumbai when I married her on 30/11/2012. In the last one and half years we could stay together only for around 10 months. Out of which 4 months were at her place in Mumbai and 6 months at my residence in Delhi. Here she used to work for a pvt clinic as an intern. I stay with my parents and younger brother. During the 6 months of her stay here, Problems started between us. The main reason was she was reluctant to perform her basic duties like performing daily puja rituals, helping my old mom in kitchen. She not even cared to cook her lunch tiffin which she used to take to the clinic regularly. If she would cook for 2 days then she won’t cook for next 4-5 days. When I requested her for the same, she used to get annoyed and used to say, ”I am doing the household works to the best of my abilities. Beyond this I can’t do, if needed, hire a cook”. So this way problems escalated to higher level. She insulted my mom in front of an aunty to start with and after that she had arguments with mom on couple of more occasions and the situation got worse and she ended up having severe arguments with me and parents one day. I strongly objected to the same and asked her to say sorry to my old parents. She just refused initially but after few hours don’t know what prompted her to seek apology to my parents and promised she’ll try her best to be a good bahu.
Meanwhile her tickets were booked for Mumbai on 13th june (dept) and 7th july (Arrival). She went to her parental home for 24 days. While going she took all her jewellery, passport, our joint bank a/c passbook and the atm of the same, where she saved her stipends and lots of cloths. I didn’t give importance much.
One week after reaching there she again fought with me over phone and said she’s not gonna come again in our Delhi residence accusing me and my parents have tortured her both mentally and physically. But believe me although we had lots of ugly arguments but she’s never been touched physically. She actually didn’t come and the returned ticket was wasted.
I proposed her let’s stay in a rented accommodation separately which she refused initially but agreed later. On 9th of July she asked me for some money which I politely refused saying you have already wasted one return ticket and I will not give you any money till you come here.
Now, yesterday I received a call from a mobile number. And one lady said she’s speaking from the Office of SP thane (women cell), Maharashtra. My wife has submitted an application and I need to report to that office on 29th July to for an Application Enquiry. She said she’s passed a wireless message to Delhi Police and they should be communicating to me the same in couple days even if that doesn’t happen I still need to report to them for enquiry.
Now I need to know the Women Cell procedures. Should I be getting any written communication? If not will I be bound to report to them just based on a Phone Call communication?
What can be the objective of the Enquiry?
What steps can I take in my defence along with my family?
Thanks,
Arindam
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 14 July 2014
Attend the complaint case, enrich your experience and reply to your query.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 14 July 2014
attend the enquiry . find out details of complaint if any lodged by your wife
Arindam Debnath
(Querist) 14 July 2014
Ajay Sir,
Should I expect to receive any written communication From the WC? Am i bound to report for the inquiry even If I don't receive a Written communication but just based on a mere phone call?
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 15 July 2014
Confirm the genuineness of the phone call and better attend the inquiry session at the cost of leading to some serious consequences in the event of failure to attend the Women Cell police. Your problems are trivial in nature, with some adjustments and compromises from your side, you may lead a very happy and peaceful married life, think.
