My wife is not ready for divorce
Amit banerjee
(Querist) 01 May 2016
This query is : Resolved
We married 1.5 yrs ago. Both of us are govt. employee. But after marriage i could realize that she is mentally sick, though i have no proof or any medical report in my support. She used to humiliate me evrytime, does not want to stay with my parents....she is living with her parents during last 3 months. I want to get rid of her...but she wants to stay with me ( not with my parents). How can i get divorce?
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 01 May 2016
Her conduct amounts to mental cruelty which is good ground of divorce.
So you can file a suit for divorce on the ground of cruelty.
If you could prove the allegations made in the plaint you can get decree of divorce.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 02 May 2016
Try to have amicable settlement.
If you file any case, she may file cases of domestic violence, dowry demand on you and or your parents. in case you are arrested and not able to get bail in 48 hrs. department has to suspend you. If she is not interested, case may run for 5-6 years even if you succeed in court.
Try to think on the possibility to save the marriage by starting living separate from your parents. It would save you from many troubles.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 03 May 2016
Such a behaviour among the earning wife is below normal, nothing serious, just reconcile and findout some amicable solution taking help of elder(s)/relative(s)/friends or counselor.
Do not resort to legal action which shall be fatal to the marriage/relation and do not think about divorce.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 16 May 2016
YOU ARE ON SELF DESTRUCTION MISSION
REFER
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/if-rcr-fails-what-to-do-599111.asp#.VznVKSFMxHA
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 16 May 2016
If she does not want to live with your parents then she has a right to do so.
You have not tried to analyses how far she is right/wrong.
In our society it is wife only who has a duty of be proved wrong always and ever. Parents of groom are NEVER (NEVER) wrong. This type of mentality has given rise to need of draconian pro-wife laws.
On other thread you said your parents are pressurizing you for divorce. But so far you have not narrated any fact justifying divorce.
