Matter of family, sepration & criminal affairs
Guest
(Querist) 09 December 2018
This query is : Resolved
I, sumeet , 24 years old , Resident – Raipur , Chhattisgarh - the marriage of my mother – (A) was almost done with the Hindu Rituals ,with rajim resident – (B) between 1992-93, but for the some domestic reasons my parents (A and B) socially (but not legally) Between 1998 and 2000, divorce was done .after this social divorce(sepration) me and my mother (A) lived here under the maternal grandmother's & fathers house. And my mother raised my whole care , in the year 2000 my mother had done my enrollment in the village school of enrollment in which the name of my real father (B) and mother (A) was written in the school records. During the same period between 2001 and 2002, my mother's had social remarriage (but not legally processed) happened with the resident of Raipur – (C). In which he agreed to keep me with my mom but at that time my adoption was not registered in any institutions since that time to till now me and my mother have been living with (C )since then I consider (A) as my real mother and (C) as a my real father.
The problem is that in the my school certificates of class 1st to 5th had written the name of my biological father (B) in the place of my father's name, but in my childhood due to negative image was created in my mind for my father, as a result of which when I was in class 6th marksheet scribbling (manipulate) in the grade 6th of my certificate by me, the father's name was changed to the name of the current Father (C). On this basis of which myclass 6th to graduation and all other documents have been named after the name of my father (C) and the name of mother (A), let me tell you that both of my parents are alive at present. And at present my real father is ready to give a statement of confirmation of divorce from my mother and to be ready for all formalities, but I am still in the dilemma that what I should do next now.
For me, rights claims in the property from both sides parents have no significance.
Please tell me the path ahead so that this mistake can be corrected in my childhood by accidentally.Because now I am mature, Can there be any legal solution because I am also preparing for the competitive exams in which I may have to face the difficulties in document verification ahead, I no longer want to do any illegal and unrealistic efforts and break any fact- Do not want to tinkle or hide, so that I have to suffer severe consequences in the near future. I am very upset please help me.
I would hope that my subject should be kept confidential and the response to my question be sent through my personal email.
kind regards,
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 11 December 2018
Why did you prefer to remain "anonymous" author and expect obligation of experts on this platform which is against rules ?
Even otherwise, no time for such a long story.
Consult a local prudent lawyer for professional advise and proceeding.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 11 December 2018
Pls don’t post as AQ and post with your ID and you can get many responses.
Your ID does not mean your email id or phone number etc and don’t post these.
Before attaching any document erase all names, logo, email id, phone number, address etc to maintain confidentiality.
Obtain proper legal opinion in writing from LOCAL counsel specializing in concerned field of law.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 11 December 2018
Is there any custom (proven and that has attained sanction of law) in your community that marriage (social) and divorce (social) and remarriage (social) as in query can be performed?
Your own parents (biological) and 2nd gentleman with whom Lady as in query (your biological mother), community leaders, panchayat etc can update you.
If 1st gentleman i.e. your bilogocal father is willing to divorce your biological mother (per customs of community and/or per provisions of personal law that applies e.g; Hindu) and get the decree from court of law then that is the solution for divorce e.g; MCD/irrevocable breakdown of marriage etc . Thereafter your mother can remarry after applicable appeal mperiod (if any, as per facts of the matter).
If 1st gentleman i.e. your bilogocal father, your biological mother, and 2nd gentleman as in query are willing to affirm for adoption (per customs of community and/or per provisions of personal law that applies e.g; Hindu) then some solution might be possible.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 11 December 2018
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