Husband not supportive

Sageetha (Querist) 10 July 2014 This query is : Resolved
I got married 2yrs back and after marriage my mother in law started harassing me for gold and all they didnt allow my parents to come to meet me and dnt allow me to go to my house.My mother in law can do anything and say anything I should not react and even my husband never supported me.My mother in law and husband took my gold after 1 month of marriage and it was with my mother in law but she never gave me.They use to take my salary also as my husband is on ship his mother use to take my salary.They use to tell u dont support ure family at all but before marriage my husband told u go to work and support ure family.They even forced me to kill my child and they aborted it and always my mother in law use to tell me get out from my house as its mine.After 1year I had gone to my sisters marriage and even my hus and family was invited but he didnt come as he told me he will get call from ship and on Jan his father was died and my sisters wedding was in May but he didnt come for that also.They even didnt gave my gold for my sisters marriage also.After coming back from my sisters marriage with my father my mother in law was telling u go back to your house only stay there only if u cant obey us.Even his elder sister use to come for 1 mnth and tell me anything but my husband never told anything to anyone.He blames me only for everything.Atlast my mother in law starting giving me and my family very abusing words at that time also my husband was not reacting and he stop talking to me then one day night i told sumthing to my husband for that my mother in law and husband beat me like anything and his grandmother stopped them.Then they called my family to take me back he gave very bad words to my mom and even my sisters husband heard it.My mother in law told me dont take any of our things only take what is ures and get out of the house.After all this my husband made me to say sorry to my mother in law as he is having fear that the house is in his mothers name and my husband is not capable of doing things by own.So my father came and I left the house and that time my husband started pleding in from of me as he was wrong his mother was wrong so u dont go and all but I left the house.But my husband never came back to my house to take me till now.They after 1mnth he send a register as his Sister is a lawyer so her plan telling me to came back as I left the house without informing my hus and mother in law and my family is forcing me to stay me at my home.So come back.Then after 1mnth he called me from ship he told me that his mother is not allowing to take me back so u stay at ure house still i comes back but now he came back and telling he wants divorce.I know it well that his mother only made him to do so.He spoiled my life and he tells me very bad things on chat as I am sleeping with boys here my family does prostitution business and all.So please help me as I dont want to divorce him

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ajay sethi (Expert) 10 July 2014
refuse to give your husband divorce . if he files for divorce contest it . you can also file for RCR

Sageetha (Querist) 10 July 2014
What is RCR...please give me some solutions as he wanted to leave me and I should go for mutual divorce as they can be out of it cooly and marry to spoil other girl life.He shows that his family is very good as they have money and we are not so rich so thinking that they can do anything.His mother wants that only that I should leave my husband so she will get a girl who will give more dowry to them

ajay sethi (Expert) 10 July 2014
it is restitution of conjugal rights . you can file said petition before family court .

in any case if you oppose divorce petition he wont get divorce easily and it may tkae around 5 years

Sageetha (Querist) 10 July 2014
k...as he is a shippy so they will give some concession to him....I didnt file any complaint before this bcoz I dnt want to spoil his career.As his sister is a lawyer.They give ideas to him and he chats with me writing abusing words

Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 10 July 2014
Take print of all abusive words, take help of lawyer to proceed in your case.

If you oppose divorce, it would not be easy for him to succeed.

Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 10 July 2014
You can ask for maintenance and other reliefs under PWDV Act.

Sageetha (Querist) 11 July 2014
Now he is ready to give back my gold and money which is with his mother as they knows the rules because his siter is lawyer.SO they had send me register letter after I left the house to make a proof that I left the house by my own they didnt do anything and my family forced to do that.

V R SHROFF (Expert) 11 July 2014
FILE DV; U WILL GET BK GOLD/ RESIDENCE ORDER, MTN,
If he file Divorce Petition; u file int mtn u/s 24. [ it will support DV too]Don't give Divorce..
Point out forced abortion..

Sageetha (Querist) 11 July 2014
Now what can I do as still now he had not filed any divorce but on chat he is forcing me to go for divorce mutually as he can save his life and even his money.They had forcefully took my marriage certificate even now I dont have even the xerox of it.

V R SHROFF (Expert) 11 July 2014
DON'T CHAT/// STOP ALL COMMUNICATION..
They can misuse against you.

communication Only thru Lawyer. to safeguard you. ].

Sageetha (Querist) 11 July 2014
By that register letter which they send me can they make proof out of it as we didnt replied anything to that letter and till now I didnt do any case also and now I dnt have proof of beating also as his sister also told me that now I cant prove it so go for mutual divorce as u both can live ure life peacefully