Got cheated in marraige
Roopa
(Querist) 25 November 2015
This query is : Resolved
Dear Sir/Madam,
My younger sister got married in June 2015 the proposal was brought through a marriage broker since our parents are traditional everything went very traditionally we got the proposal in march end that the boy is a B.com graduate works in a Bank (Co-operative Society) and when they visited the boy’s father literally brain washed us mean to say the way they spoke that we TRUSTED & thought they would be people like us & assumed whatever they explained about the boy is TRUTH he is a B.COM graduate & works in Bank. Everything got finalized & date got fixed & when the guy was asked to talk to the girl he said in front of everyone there is always time after marriage to talk not a problem so we thought even he his traditional & shy in nature everything will be fine after marriage & later number got exchanged & there was very less he called may be he called 3 or 4 times most of the time he used to text. Finally they got married now the realities is that he does not work he don't hold a degree & he is fully addicted to drinking & smoking. & his parents claim that she is been married to him to bring out the addiction out of him & he doesn't listen to her & his parents are so cheap that they often use bad words & we are not brought up in such environment. So she came back within one month & she had explained her husband that she will not come unless he quit drinking, since he drinks in the morning till night. She being a double graduate was working had so many dreams about marriage got cheated very badly & now its 3 months she has come back she has called her husband many times he does not respond to any calls & no body from his house called since they have cheated us. My parents have spent more than 10 lakhs for marriage & there is no satisfaction even she is not happy we are washing our hands in tears, recently we got to know from her co-sister that he has some serious illness, since he drinks a lot. So what can be our next step everyone at home are very depressed. We want to go legally. Kindly advice.
His parents & there family people are very bad & keep changing the words very now & then so don’t want to compromise & since even the boy is not good & doesn’t work there is no chance of things getting right.
Kindly advise since we got cheated on trusting them on what basis we can file a case or send notice.
Guest
(Expert) 25 November 2015
First Talk to them with the help of Respectable Elders and Collect back all your things and Convince them and Go For Mutual Consent Divorce which would be Completed in 6 months.If they are Not Co operative Consult A Senior Good Advocate who would Guide you How to Teach them a Lesson and To get Relieved from Them.
Nitish Banka
(Expert) 25 November 2015
You may go for annulment of marriage on grounds of fraud.collect cogent evidence first
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Nitish Banka
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Kumar Doab
(Expert) 25 November 2015
You may gather as much evidence that you can, for everything that you have mentioned.
Marriage is life time issue and one should be careful and conduct proper search.
If you can with help of elders collect back everything and go for mutual consent divorce then complete everything and let the educated girl settle again in her life.
She may start working and build her future.
Consult an able lawyer ASAP.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 26 November 2015
you are no less to blame.
it is difficult for one of be cheated regarding boys profession in arranged marriage (unless one is keen on being cheated)
try the solution given by Mr Narasimha.
Anyway such like parents of groom agree for settlement in Police Station (or CAW) only.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 26 November 2015
Try for amicable settlement, however, in the given situation it seems difficult.
File 498A, DV etc. complaint. These may force them to agree for Mutual Consent Divorce.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 26 November 2015
no use repeating at http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/Got-cheated-in-marraige-571991.asp#.Vlbnl27K2xk
Roopa
(Querist) 26 November 2015
Thanks for the advise Sir
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 26 November 2015
Whats is the need to repeat.
K.S.Srinivas
(Expert) 03 December 2015
Agreed with Sri Kumar Doab.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 04 December 2015
This does not amount to cheating for annulment of marriage. For filing a mutual consent divorce, need to wait for one year from the date of marriage. If she feels aggrieved she can criminal complaint against her husband his close relatives on various women biased laws so that they learn a lesson.
