Dva cases
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Anonymous
(Querist) 21 July 2017
This query is : Resolved
Hi Experts,
I'm in some legal problems and need your expert guidance.
My wife filed 498a and DV on us and the reason for this very personal. Due to my inability in sexual relations she has filed these cases soon after marriage and I don't blame her for this.
In the cases she has mentioned that I'm "impotent". I never thought I could have this problem considering how healthy and fit I was during my early twenties. I don't have any bad habits such as smoking or drinking etc.
I'm extremely heart broken and seems all is lost for me and because of me my family members are also affected. The wife side came for a negotiation and I agreed to pay them the amount demanded. After 2 months she went to her native place and filed DVA and maintenance cases demanding 6 times the money initially demanded.
This problem is extremely embarrassing than committing a real crime. Loss of face and name among relatives and friends etc. No men would desire this state willingly but we have to face the reality.
I went to doctors and they say there is nothing wrong physically and I'm mentally blocked but the Court relies as physical evidence by doctors and not some assurances.
Being unable to perform sexual duties, will this be considered as a crime by the court? This is something not done knowingly and out of our control and believe me we suffer the same mental pain and agony as the girl if not more or not being able to perform the sexual obligations.
I'm in no way capable of paying the amount demanded by her and we were together only for couple of months.
What are my options in my case? I'm sure you would've come across these kind of scenarios with other people in the past.
Should I simply accept and file a divorce on the actual grounds? or by doing so will the girl exploit us even more.
I'm unable to come out of this depressed state and not sure what I'm going to do.
Kindly request your guidance on this sensitive matter.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 21 July 2017
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