Dowry case
Ajay Kumar
(Querist) 13 October 2015
This query is : Resolved
Dear Experts, My marriage was on Dec.2013 and after that my wife is demanding money and harrsing me in various ways like want to do LLM,Coaching in Institutes, heavy pocket money and some other ways like says I want freedom to go anywhere and do not respect my parents etc. My salary is very low to afford her expenses and she also know about my salary that without help of my parents income we cannot survive but she consider my father's pension. I have also a baby which is now about 1 year. One day she says I want to go outside for my brothers business and sit there for his work and we deny this and then after 2-3 days she says I want to do coaching for judicial services. She is also an advocate. I deny it because at that time my baby was 7-8 months and I want his proper care and my father is also 70 years. He also need care. But at this time she shouted at our family makes quarrel and then she call his brother and then went to her parental house. After 2 -3 days she come and quarrel with my mother and she called police and then police came and councel both parties and says stay my home. But she wrote to police that I will always come to meet our baby and left my home. After 20-25 days to avoid any mis happening we give a complaint in women cell that my wife is harrasing me. In women cell she is not agree to come home and deny to come back at home.She also takes baby from us in women cell. After 4 months she give complaint in court that we are seeking dowry from her. our Neighbours are also knows that my wife is harrasing our family. My neighbours and I also went to her home to take back but she deny to come back. Please help me and suggest me.
P. Venu
(Expert) 14 October 2015
What do you want - to save the marriage or divorce?
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 14 October 2015
She is lawyer and due to women favoring laws she can turn your life a hell.
Try to have amicable settlement, it would be better for both of you and for the child also.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 16 October 2015
It is time that you observe patience, do not take any step in haste. Allow her to toil this way for some more time, the passage of time will certainly bring some changes in her or if the situation aggravates, you may decide about it against it.
