Cheat by girl before marriage
Justice for my parents
(Querist) 22 July 2014
This query is : Resolved
Hello sir,
Our engagement was went on Oct 17th 2013 , on Dec 8 2013 we had Sex and Marriage was scheduled on 03-02-2014 but marriage is cancelled by her on 15-01-2014 .
Below points are with respect to things happen on 15-01-2014 ,
1 ) She cancelled the marriage .
2 ) She said like , I hade put 18000rs amount on Table and I trade her on 11-01-2014 when I'm in her city (inside IceBerg Shop) . She said like that infront of ours and her elders , her father also was there .
My Response , Night I came to my native place from bangalore , and tommrow morning I went to davangere and then I came to her city Chitradurga .so Why do I carry such 18000rs big amount in my pocket ? so this proves her statment is lie .
3) She said ,in IceBerg shop I said like that I had sex with two girls in my past .
My Response , if I said to her or not like that, a good girl can't make statements like that infront of father and more repected elders . so this also lie .
5) She had no Couriage to marry me because I came the know the relation between her and her another boy , no couriage is the reason for her to cancel the marriage .
4) She agreed her mistake with me in Phone call . I had this voice conversion . So there is no mistakes from me .
5) there is voice call conversion for sex we had .
6) for no my mistake she tried to beat me through her brother and cousines , she said I said vulgur word to all theres elders by this they poke theres cousines and brothers to beat me . I do not have evidennce to prove this it is false statement . actually I do not know that valgur word .
7) at the end , 180000rs claimed by her elders . So we paid for her mistake . She got married with new boy . Today , Monthly we are paying 9000rs interset for that amount because of her mistake .
8) My father name , My mother name and My name is all destroyed .
Now I need to get the Justice for my parents by getting that amount back to my parents .
So , DOES MY CLAIM IS CORRECT for to take justice ? AND DOES IT LEAGALLY CORRECT ?
Thank you
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 22 July 2014
please describe problem in a manner that it can be understood in one reading.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 23 July 2014
Since marriage is cancelled do not run after her anymore especially when she is ass per your version is making wild lies.
P. Venu 
(Expert) 23 July 2014
Prima facie, the queriest does not appear to be mature enough for marriage. Remember, Marriage is a responsibility - not a fun.
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 23 July 2014
Agreed with expert Shri P.Venu.
Both of you are not mature enough for marital tie.
Both of you had sex before marriage.
Your analysis of her statements as false will not stand good at all.
Any way, leaving apart who is at fault, the marriage is cancelled, you have paid Rs.180000 under nose. Forget the episode and the loss. It is penalty for your faults.
If somebody is wise enough to violate the laid down traditions of Hindu religion, some times, they will have to pay the penalty. Exactly the same thing happened with you.
Be careful hereafter.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 23 July 2014
forget her and move on in life . she is remarried now . if you have paid Rs 1,80,000 for cancellation of marriage chances of recovery are bleak now .
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 23 July 2014
There is no use to keep alive the episode when she is married.
Agree with the experts that both of you lack maturity.
Guest
(Expert) 23 July 2014
You are not clear in your description. At two places you mentioned the amount of Rs.18,000 and at another you have stated payment of Rs.1,80,000. You also state you are paying Rs.9,000 per month as interest, which comes to 60% per annum, which does not seem to be justified in any manner. The motive of your going to her city Chitradurga is also not clear.
However, even if your story is true and you have paid Rs.1,80,000, but don't have any documentary evidence about payment without showing any specific purpose, forget about the past thinking that you had paid the price of having sex with her on Dec 8 2013.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 23 July 2014
I have also similar opinion to forget such pre-mature relationship for the betterment of you both.
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 24 July 2014
I think you lost some money. But the same time you saved from such a person..
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 24 July 2014
your following words are not worth trust:-
"for no my mistake she tried to beat me through her brother and cousines , she said I said vulgur word to all theres elders by this they poke theres cousines and brothers to beat me . I do not have evidennce to prove this it is false statement . actually I do not know that valgur word"
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 24 July 2014
agreeing with experts above, I will add that please do not provoke the girl any further. She may very well allege that you had sex on the promise of marriage or by hiding facts leading to her decision to reject marriage.
she may also allege that marriage proposal was cancelled due to dowry demand by you and your parents.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 24 July 2014
be on defensive side.
Shri Sudhir Kumar correctly hinted you the risk involved.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 25 July 2014
I agree with the experts advises on this issue and like o add that just ignore and forget all that had happened in the past as a bad dream and start a fresh thinking about your future.
Justice for my parents
(Querist) 27 July 2014
Thanks for all replies .
Yes , Forgetting is the best option . Thanks for opening my eyes . risk is heavy because they are all Politically strong and richer .
Better to move forward . but somewhere , I feel like marriages are meaningless , in these days marriages are like Business . I feel reason for this kind of Culture to develop is these days Movies/Films and facebook.
Between, I have phone call conversion in which she agreed her mistakes, I thought to claim 180000rs based upon this phone call conversion evidence .
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 27 July 2014
You might have recorded the phone conversation which might have become en evidence helpful for your cases.
Your opinion about marriages is meaningless and absurd.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 27 July 2014
you seem to be well enlightened and your IQ is much higher than the experts of this forum can think
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 27 July 2014
There is no reason to differ with the wise opinion of Sudhir who has observed you properly.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 28 July 2014
your views
"Better to move forward . but somewhere , I feel like marriages are meaningless , in these days marriages are like Business . I feel reason for this kind of Culture to develop is these days Movies/Films and facebook."
100% disagreed.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 28 July 2014
After all querist is also the result of a valid marriage.
Guest
(Expert) 29 July 2014
To make marriage meaningful, mutual trust & adjustment between the couple is a must.
