Case against cheating Fiance
G
(Querist) 25 June 2016
This query is : Resolved
Hi Everyone ,
I am coming to this forum after i tried everything to convince the boy , not to betray me like this , i begged him many times not to spoil my life . I was a very strong minded girl earlier but after this incident i have lost all my hopes . I lost all my self respect to save this . I need help /advice /legal support. I don't know much about legal /Indian law . I don't have any hope left of getting justice . I belong to a middle class family where a girl has certain restrictions and society values to follow . I followed all throughout my life . I have never been into any relationship .
I want justice , please help me and show me the path .
I got a marriage proposal in Feb 2014 through jeevansathi.com . I met the family and the boy , they liked me and said yes . My marriage was fixed for Dec 2014 but in between conflict happened between both parents and everything was cancelled . In this whole tenure boys mother , sister in law and boy himself gave all attention and care to me they can give . After the conflict happened between both families, boys still called me and remain in touch and assured me he wants to go ahead with this marriage . He said he will speak to his parents and I said the same . After 2-3 months struggle my father was ready to go ahead and start refresh . He even agreed to all their demands . This boy was all the time in touch with me (he was bangalore based and I was noida based ). He promised to me for marriage and all sorts of promise a boy can make to a girl . I trusted him . Since I was in relationship with him since April 2014, I believed whatever he said . We got engaged in April 2015 , he went to UK for a project and was only coming by mid June 2015 when there was no muhurat for marriage . So, our marriage was postponed and decided for nov/Dec. He exploited me in the name of marriage and I feel helpless of not been able to do anything except begging him . My marriage was to take place in Dec 2015 , just before 20 days , boy started saying nuisance . He said he don't want to marry me,he never liked me and don't want me in his life but still he exploited me sexually. After exploiting me he said all these . If he had told me earlier i could have myself broken the marriage .Even before 20 days when he started all the drama of compatibility and not liking me , he called me for his shopping and even to say sorry for his behaviour to his flat . This is the very first time I have went to his place in bangalore , I forgot to mention that after engagement I moved to bangalore when he was in UK to search for a job and stayed in PG.
I called me to his place before 20 days as well and forced me for sexual relationship saying anyways we are going to marry . A day prior to this he called me to a pub to meet him and his friend and help.him in his shopping . That evening only he started to say he doesn't want to marry me , he started saying he don't like me , we are not compatible. Everytime he used me in the name of marriage and now he is saying he don't want to marry me .For last 6 months , I am crying and begging him not to spoil my life . I am unable to tell my parents as what he did to me . What should I do ?
When I message or call , he says I am physco , mentally sick . I should go and meet a psychiatrist. Today , I am so kuch mentally tortured that I can't tell anyone .If he has not promised marriage , I might not have been in this condition .He fooled me as much as possible,He destroyed me mentally and physically both .
I came across one post where I read below lines and I was.unable to hold to ask ....
Well I understand that as per Indian law any guy who promises a girl for marriage and has a consensual s*xual relation under the false promise of marriage can be booked under the section for rape, as the girl is coxed under the promise of marriage and if the guy does not fulfill the promise the girl can file a case against him.
And does these cases go public . Do I have a chance of getting justice or I just more society humiliation.
I have 2 more sisters and that's why I didn't filed any case in Dec 2015 . I just hoped he might will understand his fault . Because of his false promises I am unable to live my life . Please suggest what should I do .
Regards
G
G
(Querist) 25 June 2016
I need help . Because of my society I was unable to take stand but it is killing me from inside, since I was not in a condition to against social boundaries earlier , I kept quiet but this is killing me day by day . I feel like I don't have the right to live .
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 25 June 2016
"I have 2 more sisters and that's why I didn't filed any case in Dec 2015."
Then you are at a wrong place.
This forum cannot help persons like you who due to one reason or the other cannot stand up before law.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 25 June 2016
Sex in promise of marriage is crime.
So you can file case of dowry harassment as there was demand of such leading of tension in the family.
For getting physically involved giving promise of marriage amounts to rape.
So you can file case against him u/s 376 IPC r/w section 3 & 4 of D.P.Act.
Sankaranarayanan
(Expert) 25 June 2016
Nothing more need to be advised I do endorse my friend ,s reply
G
(Querist) 25 June 2016
Thank you All for your valuable advise
I came to this forum because I want to take a stand for myself . I can't live like this . I do understand one who can't take a stand for themselves , no one can help . I came to this forum to seek advise and help in legal terms . Whether I can really do anything legally or not .
G
(Querist) 25 June 2016
Do I have to file the case in my local area or his residing city ?
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 25 June 2016
Nothing to add.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 25 June 2016
You can benefit from the advise rendered to you.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 27 June 2016
@ g,
1. You did not disclose your identity and anonymous author is not entertained on this platform.
2. This is too long a story and not a query to provide "some FREE LEGAL ADVICE"; even then you have been accommodated by the many experts.
3.Instead of being grateful you are stating inter alia, that,
"I came to this forum because I want to take a stand for myself. I cannot live like this. I do understand one who can't take a stand for themselves no on can help......"
your comments are atrocious and ridiculous.
Close this thread.
