Aunt (father's younger brother's wife) is mentally torturing my father
vikram bhambri
(Querist) 24 January 2015
This query is : Resolved
My father has a younger brother. We had moved out of our paternal house a few years back to our own house but had kept the portion of our old house intact and some of our stuff is still lying there. My father visits old home some times to meet my grandfather. Recently, my grandfather had fallen sick. After 10 days in hospital, he got well and went back to old home. Today, my father had gone to visit home and also to bring some stuff from old home to new one. My aunt has put her own stuff like washing machine etc. in our portion but we never complained. Today as my father was opening the doors of our room and was cleaning the floor, She started shouting and hurled abuses on my father. My father is a very calm person. he can't fight and shout loudly, so he heard all that and came back to our new house pretty tensed. Now, he is afraid that if he goes back to old home my aunt will shout again or in worse case can file a FIR against my father in false case(this has happened in my extended family before). So, on one side he wants to visit my grandfather as he cares for him but on another side he is afraid of this thing of shouting by my aunt. Please suggest what should be done in this case. Is there any way to ensure that false case doesn't come on my father?
Thanks
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 25 January 2015
1. Throw out the luggage/articles of your uncle+aunt and occupy your house. Pay them in the same coin.
2. Legally it shall take a very long battle, if you feel file a suit for eviction / possession.
3. File police complaint/FIR against them.
4. Engage and consult a local lawyer.
Guest
(Expert) 25 January 2015
Consult a Local Good advocate and Proceed Legally.It would take time but would be a Remedy for ever.Here you should not be advised to take Law in hands which would put you in more trouble.First Try for some amicable solutions.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 25 January 2015
In whose name the old house is?
If it is in the name of your father, he can sell / gift / will/ assign it as he wish. Your Aunt can not object to it.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 25 January 2015
your father should not stop visiting his father . in fact he should start staying in paternal house with his s family . dont bow down to pressure tactics
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 27 January 2015
This appears to be a strategy applied by your aunty to grab the property/share of your father by gradually dumping her articles in your father's place and one find day encroach the entire property/area. Beware of her motives and do not be caught unaware when the crisis is in a developed stage. As suggested by experts, pull out all her things from the house/share of your father, throw them out, let she yell and make a big hue and cry, ignore her calls, simultaneously arrive in the jurisdictional police station as first person to lodge complaint against her for her bausive and torturous behavior.
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 02 February 2015
It is a small trivial matter and what legal issues are involved in it? These are common in villages, and you should have your strategy to counter such things. Why to fear about false FIR when nothing is wrong with you people.
