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(Querist) 22 October 2014 This query is : Resolved 
Dear experts my names is Shubham Kumar Rao and I am belonging from a raj put family in gorakhpur up my age is 25 years and I must working as a finance manager in a mnc in Delhi and I living with my sister and her husband in his home.

I just married in may 2014 by arrange marriage and my wife is in near same age with me.
Before marriage my father in lows he is a teacher in intercollage in home town near gorakhpur by management quota he given me 2.5 lacks rs by cheques for purchase a car in Feb 2014 and I purchased in fab also.

now situation are very critical my wife come Delhi two times with me and first time for 20 days In these days we visited all delhi and other places as a honeymoon tours in may month after that I send her at home town by train with my sister she is married last 15 year in between see eligating that we have torcher her by works in sister's home and she don't have the space to live here and she left my home in home town within 10 days in June and his father came and bring at his home in a night my parants are there at that time.

Then I go to there home and bring her delhi in July and July to mid Oct she live with me in a rented rooms but also there is lots of problems I was faced. we have visited Mumbai hardware and lots of place in between, now she is expected, but always she is telling for susid. In between I have recorded calls from her parants and also she told me that she have a past in her life and also her mother know that I have the call details of my telephone bills and acceptance by her mother's that she have a past also. now my wife is at my home town and I m in Delhi from last week.

now his father is always treating as a bagger to me and telling that he is going to file a case against me
because he is telling that have some relation with acp, dm, and other departmental approch in our District. So please suggest what I should do first or I can wait for his response and also if I am not wrong then now Oction act is going on both party and if case is in Delhi then okay for me but if in home town the what shuld I do? Because I m the only son to earn the money for my family and my parants?
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 22 October 2014
try amicable solution
V R SHROFF (Expert) 22 October 2014
Keep yourself cool and positive.
Forget all past, yours and her; Live in present.
Do not argue. Accept that she is rich and influential, you are homeless.
Why you need car of her money?? return it to FIL.

Observe peace, do not discuss , ALL WILL SETTLE DOWN QUICKLY ONCE YOU BECOME FATHER OF HER CHILD..
Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 22 October 2014
iF YOU REMAIN IN PAST THEN YOU WOULD NEVER FIND PEACE IN LIFE AND MIND.
Star afresh and try to make peace with your past. You would find happiness. Marriage takes time to settle. Give its due time and space.
ajay sethi (Expert) 22 October 2014
agree with MR shorff . try to save your marriage . keep on calling your wife daily .she is pregnant with your child and must be having mood swings . dont file any case against your in laws . ignore your father in law threats . however as matter of precaution whenever your father in law makes threatening calls record it
Shubham (Querist) 22 October 2014
Thank you so much for your advice its great full for me, I will try my best but sir at the end I have also a limit that's why I have sended her at my home town.

And sir his father given that money for purchase a car as a gift from him, that's why I have purchase other wise I and my side never demand are ask for any things.

We just want to a good and respectfully wife simple.
Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 22 October 2014
Save the marriage and hence avoid mental tension, any legal step would make your life a hell.

Agree with the advice of experts.
Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 22 October 2014
ok..carry on your effort..goodluck.
Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 22 October 2014
ok..carry on your effort..goodluck.
Shubham (Querist) 22 October 2014
Thanks Sir Thank you so much of all to advice and giving me the best way to look forward.

thank you so much.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Expert) 23 October 2014
I agree with the experts who advised the author to look for peaceful and amicable reconciliations and not to venture into any legal action which may be detrimental for a future reunion. Let him maintain silence for the present, allow the time to roll over, let the child be born, the new addition may bring changes and fortune.
H.M.Patnaik (Expert) 23 October 2014
Very well adviced by experts in difficult times.
Shubham (Querist) 14 April 2015
Dear Sirs,













Shubham (Querist) 22 April 2015
Dear Sirs,

As u know the above problems after that on request basis i go to her home in nov and bring my wife to my home and then bring my wife and my parents with my younger sister in Delhi in nov and then i barrow some loan and purchase a land in near by my older sister area and then start the construction with support of my father in between some little bit problems i was facing and some time she start to burn the gas, and drink the martin etc but thanks to god it not happen,and reason was behind that the leave your parents and live with her alone this time. and on 29th March she give the girl baby by surgical operation in holy family hospital Delhi then we called to his parents and give this good news before that she was in touch with him and always telling that she don't want to live hear with me and my parents. after the baby born she is icu and my baby is also on equevaleter in ICU due to this was a pre meachure delivery, then doctors discharge on 02-04-2015 and in between i have taken the leave for two weeks and taking care of her then on 6-04-2015 her parents come with her brother near 10.30 am and bring her back with my newly born baby in near 10 to 15 minutes from my constructed home and all golds and clothes and some cash also then i got the message form my parents then i was trying to call him but they are not picking my phone and then i was trying to get info from some relative then i got the msg that they are in gorakhpur and then i want to connect with him but they not picking my phone and they are telling to my relative that there was no space to live my daughter and we are not giving her proper care and also beating her etc. now they are going to file case the advocate call me due to luckily he is in my reference so then i file a application in my near police post to all above happening and i have only the receiving of that i don't want to be process the case and i want to save my marriage but now situation is not in control so please suggest what should i do and how to save my family? and if i cant then how can i save my parents & my sisters


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